when its time to let go!!!

 Sometimes we all  go through the painful moments in our relationships where we think we were going yet we were coming back . In that state that's when you should gather the strength and face the reality. I remember l had a time l thought life would give me all of those rosy moments and only to realize it when I grew up that life had a lot to offer me apart from what l dreamt. just like a war where you go without knowing the outcome is what really life is. at the age of 21 l fell in love with a guy who didn't believe in my God . not that he didn't go to church but he was religious. I tried to explain to him about my faith but it seemed like l was talking to myself. one second he would act as if he was going to change and another would show his real colors. no one is capable of changing anyone except that person is changed by God . i remember there are times l used to cry to God to change him. i wanted him to change my lemons into oranges. sometimes we quote the scriptures and apply them where they do not qualify . we abuse the word of God in the name of God you said ...wake up to the realities of life and bring the change yourself. When its time to let go , let go of the things that drag you . the pain is temporary its never permanent.

in this realm we live in ,if what you want is cushioned by principles never think that what you want you will get it using the back door. the one who created marriage created it with principles so if you want  a marriage that pleases him follow the principles. a lot of guys from our age are so hungry , they are much filled with lust to an extend that you cant differentiate if really what they have is love or is lust . the real definition of love was long lost.

God wants the best from us and as a result he is never silent . His silence mean something. there is a age that needs to press more and that age is non other than our age.